I hate to say it, but RTV silicone on the rotostart housing will do nothing to help your problem...oil from the fuel leaks past the O-ring that the starting shaft runs through, in the center of the backplate. As mentioned above, the amount of oil in the fuel you use can affect how much comes in through there. Replacing the O-ring in the backplate, and using some Team Associated "Green Slime" on it helps quite a bit as far as keeping it from leaking.
Also, the safest way to clean your OWB is with WD-40, believe it or not. I don't like to use denatured alcohol or brake cleaner on them because they can, and eventually will, weaken the plastic cage that holds the rollers. Very light oils like WD-40 are actually GOOD for the rollers in the OWB, and no, it wont make it slip.
All this being said, the rotostart unit is very hard on OWB's regardless of oil contamination. From what I've seen and experienced, the only real long-term solution is to switch to a pull-start and/or replace your OWB and shaft with the OWB elimination kits on Ebay.