First of all I need everyone who reads this.. PLEASE COMMENT !!!
Most of you know i have a 4 year old son, and a girlfriend of 8 years now.
But the past few months have been really bad in our relationship. All I do it ***** and complain.
We both work, I have been working from 5 to 4 everyday for a few weeks(usually 7 to 4) and she works 5 to 10 .. 5 days a week just like me, we both get weekends off.
I'm 30 years old she is 25. I don't have the time to go out and meet alot of people b/c when I get home from work I have to watch my son and get up early and go to work. Her on the other hand has alot of friends and is in a sociable environment at work. I work w/ the same 4 guys.
Anyway, I can understand she wants to go out and hang w/ friends.
But when she gets off work she does her "thing" and doesn't come home until 2:00am ..
Keep in mind I have a 4 year old and I get up for work at 4:30 And she sleeps until 9:00to 10:00.
I Don't find this acceptable and this is a major problem. She doesn't understand why it's such a big deal.
I am a worry wart as it is .. I have to pay the bills everything .. It's hard to sleep anymore.. I don;t know how much more of this I can take...
So am I being *** for being such a @$$ ?????
Please help me explain to her why her actions are not acceptable (in my mind) Or if your on her side LMK !!!!
P.S I will be letting her read this !!!
Most of you know i have a 4 year old son, and a girlfriend of 8 years now.
But the past few months have been really bad in our relationship. All I do it ***** and complain.
We both work, I have been working from 5 to 4 everyday for a few weeks(usually 7 to 4) and she works 5 to 10 .. 5 days a week just like me, we both get weekends off.
I'm 30 years old she is 25. I don't have the time to go out and meet alot of people b/c when I get home from work I have to watch my son and get up early and go to work. Her on the other hand has alot of friends and is in a sociable environment at work. I work w/ the same 4 guys.
Anyway, I can understand she wants to go out and hang w/ friends.
But when she gets off work she does her "thing" and doesn't come home until 2:00am ..
Keep in mind I have a 4 year old and I get up for work at 4:30 And she sleeps until 9:00to 10:00.
I Don't find this acceptable and this is a major problem. She doesn't understand why it's such a big deal.
I am a worry wart as it is .. I have to pay the bills everything .. It's hard to sleep anymore.. I don;t know how much more of this I can take...
So am I being *** for being such a @$$ ?????
Please help me explain to her why her actions are not acceptable (in my mind) Or if your on her side LMK !!!!
P.S I will be letting her read this !!!