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Larsenracing

Larsenracing

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Well guys I'll try to make this short. Most of you know that I am in the process of selling my house buying a new one moving to a different state granted only 60 Miles away and also have a wedding coming up on May 23rd which is why I can't make it to the No Limits World Finals. Not only this but have decided last night to start a Custody case against my X.

We have a 4 years old on April 21st. who at this time we have joint custody where everything is supposed to be split 50/50 however I have my doughtier 95% of the time which is great I also pay for everything and the X just makes everything harder. She is an unfit mother can't carry a job can't hardly afford to live by herself she just gave a baby up for adoption cuz she couldn't afford it.

But now that I'm moving she is complaining that she wont see her 50% of the time. I just have a hard time saying that she can have her 50% of the time when only seeing her for a few hours once a week for at least the past 2 years. So its time to complete the trouble and Finnish the process.

I'm calling the Lawyer today and will get an apt as soon as I can and hoping that all goes well. What I ask for is all the support and prayer I can get as these can turn into a long nasty process.

So all in all if I'm not on alot in the near future you know where I am.
 
Man, I feel for you. I know that won't be an easy battle. Hopefully your state has better laws for men than Texas. The child will always go to the woman in Texas, unless she is feeding the child crack or something.

My daughter lives 1000 miles away from me with what I consider an un-fit mother. I own my own company, pay my bills (including the $700 monthly child support payment) and there is nothing I can do. (I've tried and lost) I only get to see my daughter for a couple of weeks during the summer.

I wish you the best man.

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Larsen save yourself some time and money and offer the mother 20,000$ cash and see if she will sign her rights away. Here in Indiana it is nearly impossible also to take a child from there mother. I work with a guy who did just what I told you and she did it. Best of luck on your future endeavors.
 
larsen good luck and it looks good on you trucks cars and rc don't matter go for whats most important and fight for it your daughter will love you more and thank you when shes older for giving her the best chance in life. again thre very best of luck to you and most important your daughter.
 
I wish you the best Larsen. It'll be a hard process trust me. We had to fight for custody of my wife's little brother. His dad was way-unfit, and it took over 2 years. But with the help of a lawyer, and evidence/testimony from some witnesses, we finally got custody. If you want any of the details of that story, I'll have to let you talk to my wife about it. She knows a LOT more than I do, as I was supporting the three of us at the time by working 12 hours a day.

Good luck man, I hope the best for ya!
 
Best of luck to you Larsen!
Our prayers are with you and I'm not sure what I/we could do to support you but if we can please ask!

Dave
 
Larsen, best wishes to you as you go through this process. The additional emotional stress it adds to an already stressfull situation makes it even harder. I do not intend to mispeak for anyone here, but myself and the other great people here on the forum are here to support you 100 percent. If you need anything at all just let me know. Good luck and I hope things turn out the way you want them too.
 
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Guys I appreciat your support and if you can do anything for me I will be sure to ask as I would do the same for you. I just hope that things turn out for the best. I have all the family support a person could ask for as she has nothing.

I know the mother thing plays a huge roll but in the end being able to support the child should be what matters.
Thank you all.:resp:
 
Larsen...good luck bro...you are in our prayers as well...stay positive and yes..it is about the support and the childs best interest going forward...I hope everything works out for you and thanks for everything thus far...we're all pullinn for ya bro....stay up!!! 🙂
 
Larsen...Good luck to you and your daughter. A little word of advice, I have brothers that have gone through the same thing. One thing I can say is if you have been taking care of your daughter most of the time or more than 75% of the time make sure you have reciepts as these things do count. Also if your moving to another state or county, you may need consent. Sounds crazy but the courts here in Illinois always give the good fathers a very hard time. It just depends on the laws in the state in which you live in. As I said Good Luck and I to will keep you in my prayers.


Wilson
 
You guys are great and give great advice, If you were here with my or could see me you would see a tear running down the side of my face. I appreciat everything you guys have done and will do.
 
Larsen as everyone, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Stay strong, and don't let them get you down. Fight for what you know is right, that is all you can do. If you need anything we are all here for you.
 
Let's not use X here in a negative way. Let's use Ex for the sake of this forum.

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grumpy1822 said:
Good luck with the new marrige and new home. Hopefully your X will just let you and your daughter move on with youir new lives.
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I wish it was going to be that easy but from the Phone conversations i've had with here it wont be easy.

whipnet said:
Let's not use X here in a negative way. Let's use Ex for the sake of this forum.
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HAHA Whipnet I guess that is true we don't want someone to think we are talking about a Savage.
 
Good luck to you my friend, my family (sister is going throgh a really bad divorce). My family will keep you in our thoughts.

This has been a great help in her fight and has taught her so many things...
I bought it for her and see still can't stop thanking me for it.
http://www.custodywar.com/win.html

I hope this can help you.
 
Hey thanks JC. That looks like a good book. I will deffanetly take a look into it. The $130-50 that thing will cost is nothing compaired to the cost of the rest.
 
Good luck Larsen. I'm deciding what the best move for me and my son are right now. His mother isn't the best and I'm working too much to do anything about it. I've taken the last 2 days off to think it over and get in touch with someone about getting my unpaid overtime. It's tough for us guys no matter what state we're in. The one thing that will help you is if you have any documentation to support your claim. Lawyers love stuff on paper. Keep your head on straight and keep in mind what you're fighting for and you should be alright. Once again, good luck buddy.
 
Thanks Parker. Its a tought dicission what to do. I'm not here by all meand to take my doughter away from her mother but just to have some athority so I can say now when she wants to do stupid things with out here creating a fight about it. I'm not after money just to relieve some of the stress.

I talked to my Lawyer how is kind of an A-hole he is very tough and doesn't lose much so I hope he can do me some good. I know of a way to make her crack and we will have to do it if we have to. I have a meeting with him next wednesday so we will see how that goes. I hope its a quick process, He kind of made it sound like a slam dunk with out saying that expecially since I had my doughter more than 95% of the time. I guess we will see what happens and hope for the best and appreciat all your prayers and thoughts.
 
well good luck larsenracing were all behind you in hoping it all turns out great for u!!!
 
Hey Bud,

My prayers are with You and Your daughter. Wishing you all the very best.

Take care ...

Hop
 
Thanks all. Just a little update.

I think I have pretty much all the custody part figured out. We will keep it a Joint custody however she will sign over that my doughtier will go to school in the town I live and will live with me and that my X will have her every other weekend during the school year. Once school is done she will be granted half the summer which will be turned into every other week. My guess is that she may want her some but will then figure out how hard it is and how expensive the kid is and how much day cost is and realized that she throws fits when you don't do everything FUN as thats what she does now every time she sees her. There is more to the story but I'm not going to get into details as it has to do with clothing, rides to and from etc, etc that you don't really care about. This is the most important thing anyhow.

I just hope this all goes as smoothly as she says it will. Now I just need my Lawyer to finish up writing this up which will basically just change my divorce decree which before stated it was a 50/50 deal. I have had my X write this all up on a piece of paper and sign and date it so I do have that. It also states on my divorce decree that if a decision cannot be made that I have the final say.

As far as moving my house is sold I have an accepted offer on another on in the new state and closing is set for May 15th for both houses which my wedding is 8 days after. This is about to get crazy then my Bros wedding is in early June and I have a huge project coming due at work soon.

Anyway, thanks again for your prayers and thoughts as i would appreciate you to keep them up as its not all over yet. I will do my best to keep you informed.
 
GOOD LUCK BROTHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! its a long hard road man, just give it your best and keep thinking of the positive if not for yourself for your kids.
 
Hang in there motor head!

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