Keep her and her friend in mind

[RangerRock]

Well I just got a terrible text message from my girlfriend.

Here is what it said " My best friend is dying. If she dies, I will die 2 and thats a promise. I love you..."

I asked her what she was doing and she told me that she was upset and that is what she responded.

Keep her friend and her in your prayers........

With this being said I might not be on for a few days.....

 

[xtremsavage]

Will do. Keep us all posted. I know the feeling. I've got a few aunts (my side of the fam and my wifes side) with cancer. It's a struggle.

 

[RangerRock]

OK guys she really has me worried now......I sent her a text message which she never responded to then called her which she ALWAYS answers her phone no matter what time it is.....she didn't answer so I walked down to her house and she didn't answer the door which I know she is supposed to be their today........

 

[Crash]

contact her family and freinds parker asap

 

[Larsenracing]

Our prayers are with you and your GF and Friend. Good luck to you. As said above keep us posted.

 

[RangerRock]

contact her family and freinds parker asap

I'm trying to get in touch with her friends but none of them have their cell phones on and they don't have a house number.....

 

[Larsenracing]

Keep trying bud, also keep calm. Things will be fine. Have you contacted her family.

 

[RangerRock]

Keep trying bud, also keep calm. Things will be fine. Have you contacted her family.

I have no way to contact her family......wish I did though.

I've sent messages to everyone of her friends that I have in my cell (about 50+)
hoping they can get in touch with her.

I have the scanner on also to the police, fire, and ambulance stations......

 

[Larsenracing]

Is there any way to get into her house?

 

[xtremsavage]

Yeah, try to see if you can get in the house or ask a neighbor to see if they can let you in.

 

[RangerRock]

Nope not without breaking in which I wont do.

I left a note on the door for her mom to give me a call.

 

[Larsenracing]

If you know what time her mom is home stop back at the house before she gets home and make sure the note is still there. If she is home she would be intrested in what you left on the door and may have teken it off. Also try knocking again at this point.

 

[Shaun]

well were all here for you buddy!!!!! hope everything works out!! keep us posted parker ok!!!!

 

[RangerRock]

If you know what time her mom is home stop back at the house before she gets home and make sure the note is still there. If she is home she would be intrested in what you left on the door and may have teken it off. Also try knocking again at this point.

I would go back down but its a good ways (about 5miles) and it I'm cooking dinner......don't know how I am cooking but I am.


Here is my girl......

I doubt she will mind since I asked her before if she cared if I showed people this pic and she said no.


Nothing so far on the scanner.......or from her or her parents or friends

 

[RangerRock]

OK guys I have gotten in touch with her again.....but she still says that if her friend dies then she dies.....

her friend has cancer....

 

[Jeremy]

I can understand your concern Parker .. But she is just upset. She will say things she won't mean. Its all part of wanting attention .. I know been there bud. I don't know your gf bud just relax it will get better man

 

[RangerRock]

God i hope it does get better........

luckily my cousin works at the fire depart and I told him to let me know ASAP if he hears a call to the fire station, police, or ambulance about a teenage girl in the neighborhood.

 

[MotoPsycho]

Parker,

You can call the police and request a "wellfare check". If you are sure she is home, they will be very persistent in getting her to answer the door, to check on her.

 

[RangerRock]

I know she is home now, at least I know she has her phone and is alive.

She wont answer the phone but we have been texting and she keeps telling me not to worry about her that if something happens to her she doesn't want to hurt me but that if her friend does die from the cancer that she will die to......I have already tried talking to her and her mom won't let me come over why I don't know........

 

[Trixter]

re g/f

Sorry to hear the bad news Parker we here are praying for them. I lost my dad when I was young sad story. I think your g/f will be ok with time just be there for her.Keep your head up for all of them they need you.Keep us posted

 

[RangerRock]

Thanks for all the replies guys I appreciate it.

I hope everything goes the way I want it to and for the good......i've had enough for one day I'm going to bed

 

[Larsenracing]

Good idea buddy, get some sleep. Tomorrow is another day everything will be fine. Like they said earlier when things like this happen things go threw your head like asking why, and why wasn't it me, I don't want to be here is he/her arnt. Thoes type of things. Get a good nites rest.

 

[Chunky Monkey]

Parker,

You can call the police and request a "wellfare check". If you are sure she is home, they will be very persistent in getting her to answer the door, to check on her.

True, I've had to do quite a bit of those calls at the PD.

 

[T.T.]

re.parker

Hey man,
I know this is a hard thing to go through life is full of all kinds of ups and downs. My advice to you is to just be there for your gf when she needs you, listening to someone that is heartbroken like this is the best thing and giving her a shoulder to cry on. I wil be praying for you all. Keep your spirit up.

 

[RangerRock]

Ok guys she is at school today, I see her at first period and she was crying the entire time......she really does look sad.

I'm sticking in it for her and doing the best that I can for her.

 

[Jeremy]

My advise for you would be ... let her have her space..
I am I right ladies ?

 

[RangerRock]

Thats what I am doing for now....

I can tell though that when she sees me in the hallway she cheers up and smiles.....

 

[RangerRock]

Wow i was in 2nd period and the principle was knocking on the door.....come to find out she went to the guidance office and told them she has some stuff going on and told them she wanted to see me so they brought her down her so she could see me.....

I can't wait for this end and end in a good way

 

[Double-O-Zilch]

Hope it starts looking up soon Parker. I gotta head outa town today so I'll be of the computer for a couple days. I wish you luck and hopefully with time it will get better, be strong.

 

[Fx]

Yeah I'm not trying to make light of the situation but I agree with SJ. She's upset and just verbalizing her thoughts. I don't think she would act on them. Now if she has a history of harming herself of substance abuse there might be something to worry about. Anyhow parker, best of luck, she's just sad.